10 Ways to Get Your Marriage Back on
Track
First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes happily ever after. End of story, right? Not quite… While it’s true that couples relax a bit after they think they’ve nabbed the matrimonial Holy Grail, the reality is that they may also find themselves dumbfounded if their fairytale starts slipping away. “Many people think that marriage is about marrying the right person, so when things go wrong, they automatically go to the ‘Crap, I accidentally married the wrong person’ place,” says Alisa Bowman, author of Project: Happily Ever After. “Although you do want to marry someone you are basically compatible with, marriage has a lot less to do with marrying the right person than it has to do with doing the right things with the person you married.” In other words, relationships are a constant work in progress. To keep the happy connection that made you say “I do” in the first place—or maybe even create a newer-and-improved version—try out these 10 tips to rehab your romance.
1. Nurture yourself
2. Define your problems
3. Make a financial plan together
4. Use the three-sentence rule
5. Take your fighting gloves off
6. Just do it
7. Burn your grudges
8. Don’t be overly confident
9. Write your spouse’s eulogy
10. Remind yourself you have a choice to stay married
